Dry and Bored!

I have noticed that the last two guys I have been with.. either went all the way or just fooled around with... Have been soo dry and just plain out boring... I don't know what I am looking for.. But it SURELY is not that! I want someone to want to kiss me, and hold me... But also show me some new things.. I hate being bored.. I'm bored at work.. I'm bored at home... so the last thing i want is a BORING SEX LIFE.. and i know it is not me because I try to bring new elements and things into the mix, but it just gets shut DOWN.. I NEED SOMEONE WITH ADVENTURE AND EXCITEMENT.